What if taking your business so seriously is actually getting in the way?
In this episode of The Gates in Real Life, we explore Gate 46 in Human Design and Gene Key 46 – moving from the shadow of Seriousness, to the gift of Delight, to the Siddhi of Ecstasy.
We talk about the pressure to get everything right, control outcomes, hit the goal, follow the strategy, and constantly worry about whether what you’re doing is working. And we explore what becomes possible when you loosen your grip enough to make room for play, presence, intuition, and a little serendipity.
We also get into the body’s role in decision-making, why strategy and delight don’t have to be mutually exclusive, and how following what genuinely lights you up can put you in places you never could have planned for.
Because maybe you don’t need to stop having goals or caring about your business.
Maybe you just don’t have to hold it all so tightly.
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Heidi’s Offerings:
Come join me on Substack, where I explore the middle path between business success and well-being for heart-led biz owners: substack.com/@servicewithsoul.
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Melissa’s Offerings:
If this conversation resonated with you, you’ll find more inside my Substack, Remembering Who You Are… where Human Design meets business, personal growth, and the deeper work of living in alignment with who you already are. https://substack.com/@melissanaslund
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