Gate 58 in Human Design is known as the Gate of Vitality and Joy, but how does that actually play out in the day-to-day of running a coaching business?
In this episode of The Gates in Real Life, we explore the real tension between divine dissatisfaction and true joy, especially during the holiday season. We unpack how Gate 58 moves from the shadow of dissatisfaction to the gift of vitality and the siddhi of bliss, and what that means for coaches navigating the emotional rollercoaster of business, marketing, and unmet expectations.
You’ll hear personal stories, nervous system insights, and practical reflections on how to stay anchored in your own joy without chasing perfection, proving your worth, or burning yourself out trying to “get it right.”
Whether you’re a coach using Human Design or Gene Keys in your work, or you’re learning to lead yourself through your own deconditioning, this one’s a powerful reminder: joy isn’t something you earn, it’s something you already are.
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Melissa’s Offerings:
If this conversation resonated with you, you’ll find more inside my Substack, Remembering Who You Are… where Human Design meets business, personal growth, and the deeper work of living in alignment with who you already are. https://substack.com/@melissanaslund
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Heidi’s Offerings:
Come join me on Substack, where I explore the middle path between business success and well-being for heart-led biz owners: substack.com/@servicewithsoul.
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